Yoga+Music (not quite 365) – Tapestry by Carole King – Recipe Edition!

It’s Tuesday and that means the Recipe Edition!  

Here’s where I share an easy, nutritious recipe so you can join me in the home-cooked self-care.   

Macaroni and Cheese 

adapted from The Food You Crave: Luscious Recipes for a Healthy Life by Ellie Kriger 

 

Serves 8 

Ingredients  

  • 1 (16-ounce) box elbow macaroni
  • 2 10 ounce packages of pureed winter squash (I used cubed frozen butternut squash from the SacCo-Op)
  • 2 cups of low-fat milk
  • 1 1/3 cups (4 oz) sharp cheddar grated
  • 2/3 cups (2 oz) Monterey Jack cheese grated
  • 1/2 cup part-skim ricotta (I forgot to buy it, so I used a little more Jack and Cheddar)
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tsp dry mustard
  • 1/8 tsp cayenne pepper
  • 2 TBS bread crumbs (I used sourdough heels, toasted and whirred in the food processor)
  • 2 TBS Parmesan cheese grated
  • 1 tsp olive oil
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    Directions  

    1. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Coat 9X13 baking dish with cooking spray.
    2. Cook macaroni according to package directions. Drain and transfer to prepared baking dish {or put back in the pot like I did}
    3. Meanwhile, put frozen squash and milk in a large saucepan and cook over low heat, stirring occasionally. Break yo the squash with a spoon until it is defrosted. Turn up the heat to medium and cook until the mixture is almost simmering, stirring occasionally. Remove pan from heat and stir in the cheeses, salt, mustard, and cayenne. Pour this mixture over the macaroni and stir to combine.
    4. Combine the breadcrumbs, parmesan and oil in a small bowl (or food processor). Sprinkle over the top of the macaroni and cheese. Bake until the cheeses are bubbling around the edges, about 20 minutes, then broil for 3 minutes so the top is crisp and nicely browned.

    NOTES: I added a bunch of garlic powder to the cheese mixture and I’d add fresh herbs if I would have had some. I also serve with green vegetables like spinach or broccoli.

    What are your go-to healthy foods?   

    How do you change your diet based on the season?   

    Send me your recipe and you may find yourself featured here!    

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    Today’s yoga brought to you by the home practice.     

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    Yoga Teaching Update:    

     FREE Fridays at 4:30 with the new It’s All Yoga teachers (21st and X in Sacramento) – you’ve got to sign up online www.itsallyoga.com    

     These classes are for every body – level 1/2. Bring your friends!    

     Looking for a restorative YogaNap ? Please check my teaching schedule.  

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    Yoga Goes to University – Part 2 – Ryan Fong, Yogi

    Teachers.   

    Don’t you just love them?   

    I know I do.   

    There are those that inspire me and those that make me laugh. Some help me solve problems in my classroom and others that help me solve problems in my life.   

    I’d like to introduce you to some of my favorite teachers here.   

    Teachers in studios, classrooms and in the world at large. These are the folks you will see featured in my new series of interviews here at Teacher Goes Back to School.   

    I hope you enjoy these teachers as much as I do!   

    In case you missed PART ONE with Ryan Fong.

    When did you start practicing yoga?

    My first yoga class was probably 8-10 years ago now, when I took an intro series at the now-closed Free Spirit Studio.  In the years since, I have wandered on and off the mat at various points.  But in this last round, I’ve been practicing at It’s All Yoga since June of 2009.

    Why did you start practicing yoga?

    I initially started coming to yoga in search of an exercise program that would work for me.  I wanted something that would help cultivate both flexibility and strength, and I was also looking for a form of exercise that didn’t feel like punishment. 

    As a very overweight person, traditional gyms have been an incredibly toxic environment for me because I find their overall philosophy to be about beating your body in to submission in order to achieve a supposed physical ideal.  Whenever I walked into one, I always felt incredibly self-conscious about my body and weight, and always felt like I didn’t belong. 

    As I became more familiar with yoga, I was intrigued by the way that it encouraged you to inhabit and honor your body–and the importance of attending to your mind and spirit as a crucial part of self-care.

    For me, yoga brings the right balance: a strength building discipline that is also about getting your body, mind and soul all in better “shape.”

    Where did you practice?

    I’ve practiced at Free Spirit Studio and Shanti Studio, both of which are now closed.  My yoga home is now It’s All Yoga.

    How has your practice evolved over time?

    In reading over my answer to question six, I’m realizing that I probably wouldn’t have even been able to think of yoga in those terms when I first started, or more accurately, to really believe them. 

    Throughout my practice, I’ve struggled with feelings of competitiveness and with releasing the negative thoughts of “You need to sweat and work harder and hold this pose because you’re a bad person for eating those cookies and getting so fat.” 

    There was a time when I couldn’t practice in the same room as my partner because I would get so steaming mad when he could do a pose that I had mentally deemed “impossible” and “only for the super bendy.” 

    Much of shifting away from that mindset has been in learning about the facets of yoga that go beyond the poses.  It has also been about finding a yoga home where I’ve learned how to not necessarily silence the committee of howling negativity monkeys in my head, but at least to not give them so much power.  I’m slowly getting more comfortable in my own skin (which probably has a lot to do with being 30 instead of 20!), and I’ve come to see the place of yoga in my life as less of an activity and more as a way of being.

    Do you have a home practice? What is it like? How often? Where? How’d you start and how do you keep at it?

    I wish I had a regular home practice.  I’m still struggling with that. 

    Right now, I’m focusing on a regular home meditation practice that I do every morning.  I got a Zafu for my birthday, and I think it’s really going to help facilitate that.  Finding a good space has been a bit of a challenge, as the living room is the only place in the house that works but at the same time, it doesn’t feel quite right.  I’m trying to just let it be and not wait for things to be “perfect” to start on it thought. 

    My intention right now and for the near future is to just sit my butt on my Zafu and meditate for 10-15 minutes each morning.  That, in and of itself, is a challenging edge for me to work with.

    What’s your favorite pose? Why?

    Because I’ve really come to see Nataraja as a personal icon and spiritual avatar, I love Lord of the Dance. {You can read more about that on my blog}

    I also have really tight hips, so going into Figure 4 at the wall and pigeon are some of the most opening poses for me.  A prop laden Savasana after a more active practice is heaven. 

    Pretty much anything involving props is a good thing. {I couldn’t agree more!}

    What’s your least favorite pose?

    I hate Happy Baby.  In my head, I call it Angry Baby. 

    My ample stomach doesn’t allow me to grip my feet or even my shins, and so the howler monkey committee can really get going when everyone else is blissing out.  (Of course, that in itself a big fat story of negative self-talk: thinking I am the only one in the whole room who is experiencing challenge in a pose.) 

    Plus, holding my legs up like that just fatigues my ab muscles and puts a lot of tension and strain into my upper shoulders.

    How do you bring your yoga practice into your teaching practice?
     
    How does your teaching practice influence your yoga practice?

    Both of these questions are a little difficult to answer, because I’ve tended not to think of them together.  I’ve thought a lot about the relationship between my yoga practice and the process of writing my dissertation.  They truly represent the yin and the yang in my life and my quest for balance.  A lot of my stuff shows up when I’m on the mat and when I’m writing at my computer, and so there’s a lot of interplay between both spaces of work. 

    In graduate school, we are encouraged to think of teaching a the compartmentalized thing we do to get paid.  It’s the thing that we have to do in order to do the thing that’s actually valuable (meaning, our research, which will allegedly be the thing were most judged on in the academy). 

    I’ve tried to cultivate a greater sense of investment in my teaching than that–by teaching things that I’m interested in and pieces of literature I’m passionate about–but it’s hard to think about teaching being as central to my life as either writing or yoga.  That’s more than a little ironic given that I’m in this to eventually get a teaching position at a college or university. 

    I hadn’t realized how much I had absorbed the research-centric focus of the university until just now.  It’s a bit embarrassing to be honest.  I can say though that this answer certainly has cultivated a greater awareness of the way I categorize and create boundaries around different parts of my life and work.

    Please leave any questions or comment love below:     

    If you want to learn more about Ryan Deep Homework and Two of Us Riding Somewhere.

     

    INTERVIEW ARCHIVES:

    September 2010: Michelle Marlahan– Proprietress/Fairy Queen of It’s All Yoga in Sacramento, California.

    Yoga Goes to University – An Interview with Ryan Fong

    Teachers.   

    Don’t you just love them?   

    I know I do.   

    There are those that inspire me and those that make me laugh. Some help me solve problems in my classroom and others that help me solve problems in my life.   

    I’d like to introduce you to some of my favorite teachers here.   

    Teachers in studios, classrooms and in the world at large. These are the folks you will see featured in my new series of interviews here at Teacher Goes Back to School.   

    I hope you enjoy these teachers as much as I do!   

    Ryan Fong is October’s Featured Teacher. I met Ryan at the studio and we went on a yoga retreat together this summer.

    What and where do you teach?

    I teach English literature and composition at UC Davis. 

    This quarter, though, I’m a teaching assistant for a Women and Gender Studies course, which is a bit of a change.  It’s the introductory level course, so it’s a big 200 person lecture, but I have two 25-student discussion sections were we get to work through the history of feminism and think about the role of gender in our daily lives, especially as it intersects with other facets of our identity.

    What is your teaching history?

    I still feel relatively new to teaching, even though I’ve been doing it for quite a while now.  My first “official” teaching happened when I was a TA as an undergrad, where I assisted in both English and Sociology classes. 

    As a graduate student at UC Davis, they start us out at TAs for literature classes for majors and then let us teach our own courses for the remainder of our time there.  That’s where I’ve taught both Introduction to Literature and freshman writing.

    What brought you to teaching?

    One of my big mentors growing up was my aunt, who was a high school English teacher and is now the Executive Director of the California Writing Project.  She was the one who would always buy me books for Christmas and birthdays growing up, and she really instilled a love of language and learning in me. 

    My family is generally filled with teachers, so when I decided a long time ago in about 7th or 8th grade that I wanted to be a teacher, I got a lot of support.  My parents are both pretty avid readers, and would read to me when I was a kid. 

    When I went to college, I decided I wanted to be an English professor, because I loved the freedom and intellectual rigor of the university classroom.  I went to a small liberal arts school where teacher-student interaction was and is really prized, and I decided that creating the kind of rich classroom environments I found there was what I wanted to do. 

    Now that I am reaching the end of my graduate student career, I’m facing the realization that being a professor will ultimately not be up to me, based on how the economy is looking and the realities of an incredibly competitive academic job market.  Nevertheless, I know in one way or another, teaching (in the largest sense) is my calling.

    Tell us about your blog

    I actually have two blogs. 

    The first—Two Of Us Riding Somewhere – – is a blog that I started recently to record my 30th birthday roadtrip to the Pacific Northwest with my partner.  It’s been so much fun, and I think it will be a regularly maintained blog that will record our experiences traveling, eating, and seeing natural and urban wonders!

    My second blog Deep Homework.  

    This is a much more personal blog that is focused on issues of spiritual growth and my quest for balance and well-being.

    About a year ago now, I had a tarot reading with my uncle’s partner, Greg — a reading that was prompted by the changing of the seasons and the shift from fall into winter.  It was a cold day out in San Francisco, and I was feeling like I was on the cusp of a big change.  At the same time, I felt like I was incredibly stuck. 

    What came out in the reading was that I could either slip into the quietude of sameness and continue to be stuck in my old patterns or I could embrace the process of engaging in what Greg called “deep homework.” 

    The result of that homework, the reading portended, was nothing short of a radical rebirth and transformation.  I started the blog as one part of my effort to do that “deep homework.”  

    Being a classic extrovert, I need to write and talk to actually know what I’m thinking and to give the endless circles of conversation in my head some direction and shape.  The blog has thus become a place to really work through my stuff in writing, while also exploring my new discoveries in yoga, meditation and Eastern spirituality.  

    What other blogs do your read? Why?

    I read your blog {awww…} and Michelle’s blog with regularity and occasionally I drift on to other people’s blogs from the studio.  {see the TGBTS Yoga Story links} Since my blog is so yoga based, I like reading other blogs that are using the sphere to explore those particular issues.

    As a foodie, I’ll also come in and out of browsing food blogs like Bakerella, Pioneer Woman Cooks and Prudence Pennywise.  My two favorite local food blogs are Sac Food In the Hood and one by my cousin-in-law, Out of the Kitchen.

    Who and what inspires you?

    I have many people who inspire me. 

    • My partner, Eric, inspires me to see myself in the way that he sees me—with unconditional love and compassion. 
    • My uncle is an inspiration for a life lived well and very mindfully.  He’s a friend, mentor, and model in addition to being my blood relative. 
    • I’m inspired, as I think many of us at IAY are, by the way the community there supports us in experiencing the challenges and joys of really embracing it *all* as yoga. 
    • But mostly, I’m inspired by the universe’s generosity in giving us this present moment to do and be right.  Not right as in correct, but as in right here, right now and just right. 

    Please leave any questions or comment love below:     

    If you want to learn more about Ryan Deep Homework and Two of Us Riding Somewhere.

    Stay tuned for Part 2 – Ryan is  a Yogi!

    INTERVIEW ARCHIVES:

    September 2010: Michelle Marlahan– Proprietress/Fairy Queen of It’s All Yoga in Sacramento, California.

    Saturday Senses

    Saturday Senses is a way to capture the spirit of each week. 

    tasting ::  sesame chicken pasta salad with spinach

    hearing :: prince from the past and old 97s from the future

    smelling ::   earl gray tea in the b quad

    seeing :: my mom for a brief visit from texas

    feeling ::  a whole lot of i-don’t-wanna – mr. procrastination is currently visiting and is making himself comfortable

    wishing/hoping :: for a productive and prolific week

    What about you?

    What are your senses this Saturday? 

    Looking back, how was your week?    

    {comments inspired by Havi at The Fluent Self – Friday Chicken – go see for yourself. it’s like free therapy! }

    This weekly tradition inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day

    If you are reading this in a reader, click on over to see the video.

    Song notes:

    1. Under The Cherry Moon’s soundtrack is one of my all time favorites. 

    2. I saw this movie on opening night because that’s how much I loved Prince.

    3. My friend saw Purple Rain for the first time this week at my recommendation. We’ll see if I can convince her to watch UTCM.

    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #21Song of the Day #20Song of the Day #19Song of the Day #18Song of the Day #17Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    Yoga+Music (not quite 365) – The Grand Theatre, Volume One by Old 97’s – Recipe Edition!

    It’s Tuesday and that means the Recipe Edition!  

    Here’s where I share an easy, nutritious recipe so you can join me in the home-cooked self-care.   

    Sesame Chicken Pasta Salad  

    adapted from allrecipes.com 

     

    Serves 6  

    Ingredients  

  • 1 (12 ounce) package radiatore pasta
  • 1/4 cup sesame seeds
  • 1/4 cup salad oil
  • 3/4 cup soy sauce {I used low sodium}
  • 1/2 cup white wine vinegar {I used rice wine vinegar}
  • 3 1/2 tablespoons sugar {I only used 2 Tbsp of sugar since the rice wine vinegar has sugar in it}
  • 2 cups cubed, cooked chicken {seasoned with garlic and black pepper}
  • 1/2 cup chopped fresh parsley
  • 1/2 cup coarsely chopped green onion
  • 4 cups torn fresh spinach leaves
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    Directions  

    1. Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil. Add pasta and cook for 8 to 10 minutes or until al dente; drain.
    2. Meanwhile, heat oil in a small skillet over medium-low heat. Stir in sesame seeds and cook until golden brown. Remove from heat. Stir in soy sauce, vinegar, and sugar. Pour dressing into a sealable container, and set aside. {or just pour it in with the warm pasta and try not to eat too much of it}
    3. In a large bowl, mix together pasta, cooked chicken, and 1 cup dressing (reserve remaining dressing). Cover salad, and refrigerate at least 6 hours. {I put in all the dressing and the pasta and chicken soaked it up – delicious!} {We couldn’t wait 6 hours, we ate it after 3 – still yummy}
    4. Directly before serving, stir in parsley, green onions, and spinach. Toss with remaining dressing, if desired.

      

    This recipe was delicious hot or cold, with or without the spinach.    

    What are your go-to healthy foods?   

    How do you change your diet based on the season?   

    Send me your recipe and you may find yourself featured here!    

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    Today’s yoga brought to you by the home practice.     

    Today’s music is   

      

    click on the album to listen

      

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    Yoga Teaching Update:    

     FREE Fridays at 4:30 with the new It’s All Yoga teachers (21st and X in Sacramento) – you’ve got to sign up online www.itsallyoga.com    

     These classes are for every body – level 1/2. Bring your friends!    

     Looking for a restorative YogaNap ? Please check my teaching schedule.  

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    Saturday Senses

    Saturday Senses is a way to capture the spirit of each week. 

    tasting ::  delicious tamale lunch brought in by our new principal. totally unnecessary and yet, fully appreciated.

    hearing :: blitzen trapper: furr. {bonus track for the yogis}

    smelling ::   the faintest hints of fall before the summer like weather in the afternoon kicks in.

    seeing :: every kid in my class working really hard to finish every assignment.

    feeling ::  thrilled because it’s all yoga was voted “best yoga studio” in sacramento by the sacramento news and review. yay team!

    wishing/hoping :: everyone has a restful, yet fun-filled weekend.

    What about you? What are your senses this Saturday?  Looking back, how was your week?    

    {comments are inspired by Havi at The Fluent Self – Friday Chicken – go see for yourself. it’s like free therapy! }

    This weekly tradition was inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day

     

    Song notes:

    1. Could John Fogerty be any cuter in this video? Photo, not so much.

    2. My dad went to high school with these dudes.

    3. If this record came out today, I’d buy it and bug you to listen to it.

    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #20Song of the Day #19Song of the Day #18Song of the Day #17Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    Don’t Expect Applause

    One of my absolute favorite poems.

    I share it in my yoga classes and now with you here.

     

    Don’t Expect Applause

    And yet, wouldn’t it be welcome

    At the end of the each ordinary day?

    The audience could be small, the theater modest,

    Folding chairs in the church basement would do,

    Just a short, earnest burst of applause

    That you got up that morning

    And one way or another you made it through the day

    You soaked up in the steaming shower

    Drank your Starbucks in the car

    And let the guy with the windex wipe your windshield

    At the long red light at broad street.

    Or maybe you were that guy, not daring to light up as you stood there because everyone’s so down on smoking these days.

    Or you kissed your wife as she hurried out the door,

    Even though you were pretty sure she was meeting her lover

    At the flamingo motel,

    Even though you wanted to grab her by a hank of her sleek hair.

    Maybe your son’s in jail, your daughter’s stopped eating

    And your husband’s still dead this morning,

    Just like he was yesterday and the day before that.

    And yet you put on your shoes and go for a walk

    And when a neighbor says good morning

    You say good morning back.

    Would a round of applause be amiss?

    Even if you weren’t good, if you yelled at your kid

    Poisoned the ants, drank too much,

    And said that really stupid thing you promised yourself you wouldn’t say.

    Even if you don’t deserve it.

    +++++

    What are your thoughts? Wouldn’t it be nice at the end of an ordinary day?

    Banned Books Week

     In case you didn’t know, Banned Books Week – the only national celebration of the freedom to read – starts today and runs through October 2nd.

    In celebration of my freedom to read here’s my weekend reading list:

    What are you reading this week?

    Saturday Senses

    Saturday Senses is a way to capture the spirit of each week. 

    tasting ::  an apple a day.

    hearing ::  – a class favorite – everybody passes gas .

    smelling ::   massage oil.

    seeing :: lots of students smiling at the end of the week. hooray for p.a.t.!

    feeling ::  tired. thank you, insomnia.

    wishing/hoping :: for restful sleeps and a return to a somewhat motivated state of being.

    What about you? What are your senses this Saturday?  Looking back, how was your week?    

    {comments are inspired by Havi at The Fluent Self – Friday Chicken – go see for yourself. it’s like free therapy! }

    This weekly tradition was inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day

    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #19Song of the Day #18Song of the Day #17Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    Gimme Shelter

    A few months ago I decided to start taking medication to regulate my hormones. At the time, I was experiencing some pretty deeply felt rage and couldn’t quite get myself out of the dungeon.

    The medication has been a lifesaver.

    So much so, that in retrospect, I wish I’d started taking it sooner. Up until I experienced some relief, I was unaware of how desperate the situation had become.

    Why did I hesitate?

    I drank the self-care kool-aid.

    If I do enough yoga, I won’t want to strangle every other person that speaks today.

    If I eat the right food, I will magically want to hop out of bed and run a marathon today.

    You know, I thought I could fix it by myself.

    I didn’t want to have to take daily medication for something I thought I could control (or at least get some kind of relief from) with yoga, meditation, diet, exercise, massage, talk therapy etc.

    Other people seemed to manage their lives without medication, so why couldn’t I?

    Maybe if I was more consistent with my practices or more diligent with my food, sleep, time on the mat, time away from it all…

    Don’t get me wrong, my symptoms were alleviated, somewhat, with a combination of all those practices.

    And to be perfectly honest, I was struggling with the idea of taking medication because I had thought for many years that pills of all kinds were over prescribed, especially to women, and I didn’t want to fall victim to the pharmaceutical companies.

    Take a pill! Your life will magically be better!

    Finally, after a particularly harrowing day in the dungeon, I decided I’d had enough.

    Three desperate phone calls with Kaiser later, I had a prescription in hand.

    Here’s what I have learned:

    My life is better by taking a daily pill.

    It’s not perfect, nor have all of my symptoms been magically erased, but it is SO.MUCH.BETTER.

    I actually feel more like myself.

    My experience has opened many conversations with other women about their experiences as well. It’s been enlightening in such a good way.

    As it turns out, other people – even ones who practice yoga – also struggle with the idea of taking medication. They also experienced great relief once they began taking the meds.

    Other things I’ve learned:

    Even though I’m taking oral contraceptives, my body is still going through its process. It’s not nearly as pronounced, but it is still there.

    Insomnia, irritability, depression, and headaches are still present albeit to a much lesser extent.

    ++++

    So what do I take from this all?

    It’s ok to ask and receive help.

    Even from people or things you have rejected in the past.

    Nature’s process can’t be completely tamed.

    Self-care during this time is paramount.

    Taking time to retreat from my regularly scheduled life is what I need right now. Not forever, just until I feel better.

    Sometimes it is ok to seek out safety and comfort in a quiet sheltered place.

    +++

    Tell me I’m not alone in this.

    Saturday Senses

    tasting ::  the fruits of my labor.

    hearing ::  “teacher, i had a great day today!”

    smelling ::  chocolate chips cookies served after our YogaNap.

    seeing :: teachers taking the time to care for themselves: heidi, alicia, alice, and michelle – thank you for coming to class!

    feeling ::  grateful. the yoga blogger community has come out in force on how yoga isn’t all f#*king sunshine and rainbows.  yisforyogini and svasti posted their thoughts. check them out.

    plus teacher takes a year off’s post about teacher self-care started my week. <3

    wishing/hoping :: we all find some time and space to take care of ourselves.

    What are your senses this Saturday?  Looking back, how was your week?    

    Leave me a comment to tell me made your week memorable.   {comments are inspired by Havi at The Fluent Self – Friday Chicken – go see for yourself. it’s like free therapy! }

    This weekly tradition was inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day!

    Little Sue at the Laurelthirst

    Portland, Oregon

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    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #18, Song of the Day #17Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    Self-Care Versus the Dreaded Shoulds

    My name is Tami and I’m a Should-A-Holic.

    This weekend I had some tough choices to make.

    Do I spend my limited time away from work doing more work?

    -I really should figure out my timed math ‘system’

    -I really should spend more time with the math curriculum

    -I really should fill-in-the-blank unfinished teacher work

    Or do I invest some time in self-care?

    Sunday afternoon I found myself having a serious case of the I-don’t-wanna-goes/why-can’t-weekends-be-longers which is what happens when I don’t work on Saturdays.

    If I don’t work on Saturdays, I feel compelled to work on Sundays.

    Never mind that I worked Monday-Friday.

    At my two jobs.

    So I consulted the Book of Me.

    This weekend I remembered why I wrote the Book of Me in the first place.

    It’s so I don’t lose my shit when I go back to work.

    See, self-care is much easier when I have less demands on my time.

    Of course, I’m going to spend time with friends.

    Of course, I’m going to eat healthy food.

    Of course, I’m going to go to bed early and get enough rest.

    When I’m on break it’s much easier to take good care of myself. It’s when suddenly there are demands on my time that I have to remind myself that even though I am working and have responsibilities, self-care is IMPERATIVE.

    My solution? 

    To focus on some simple activities that make me happy.

    Some things I will add to the Book of Me.

    • Mini-pedi {everything except the polish}
    • Phone date with a lifelong, now long-distance friend
    • reading a book for pleasure {Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage by Elizabeth Gilbert}
    • making an easy, tasty dinner

    Let’s be honest, work will always be there.

    Time away, truly away to recharge your batteries and enjoy the simple things, is limited.

    My friend, Johanna, is taking a whole year off from teaching so she can recharge her batteries, connect with her family and find a place of self-care. She writes about it here.

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    Tell me, how do you take care of yourself when life gets busy?

    2 Years and Waiting – International Adoption is Not for the Impatient

    September 11, 2008 we signed our adoption agreement.

    2 years down, one more to go.

    Finally, our third trimester.

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    Back in January we got an update on our status. It essentially moved our process from a 2 year to 3 year deal. We were shocked.

    Then in April, the wheels really tried to fall off the bus. Someone sent their kid back to their home country and started a firestorm of media attention on international adoption. We just try to keep focusing on all the families that are successfully made through this process.

    In June, I shared our journey toward parenthood… 21 months and counting.

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    It’s September and not much has changed.

    We’ve heard it might be February or March for the referral. That is a slight delay, but one that is good to know now, not later.

    So what will we do now?

    Wait.

    Read.

    Connect.

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    If you are interested in adoption as a way to build your family, please start the process sooner rather than later. It takes a lot longer than you think it will.

    Free YogaNap Friday!

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    Who: You       

    What: YogaNap – a little restorative yoga class taught by me.       

    When: The resting is Friday, September 17th      

    The class begins at 4:30 {register online to reserve your place – space is limited}       

    Please come early to start the resting before class.      

    Where: It’s All Yoga – Sacramento, CA       

    Why: Wouldn’t it be nice to just rest?        

    What are you doing to take care of yourself this week?

    Saturday Senses

    Saturday Senses is a way to capture the spirit of each week.  

    tasting ::  breakfast burritos from the simple dollar.

    hearing ::  new mix cd AND a live old97s show from @maripops.  she claims she loves rhett as much as me. she’d probably argue she loves him more. she’s cute that way. <3

    smelling ::  coconut flavored rum. oh.my.god. who knew this delight even existed? is it so wrong i want to wear it as perfume?

    seeing :: how you say something might just be as important as what you say. duh.

    feeling ::  ridiculously proud of myself for not freaking out when i received some feedback on something i asked for feedback on at work.  good thing i’m not taking it personally  – not that there was anything to necessarily take personally – but sometimes the perfectionism rears its ugly head… and sometimes i’m crazy.

    wishing/hoping ::  for more learning/refining at work. preferably without the usual pain/discomfort of learning/refining. in other words, i’d like a little magic please.

    What are your senses this Saturday?  Looking back, how was your week?    

    Leave me a comment to tell me made your week memorable.   {comments are inspired by Havi at The Fluent Self – Friday Chicken – go see for yourself. it’s like free therapy! }

    This weekly tradition was inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day!

     

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    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #17Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    It’s All Yoga. {Seriously} – An Interview with Michelle Marlahan – PART 2 – Getting Down to Business

     Teachers.

     Don’t you just love them?     

    I know I do.     

    There are those that inspire me and those that make me laugh. Some help me solve problems in my classroom and others that help me solve problems in my life.     

    I’d like to introduce you to some of my favorite teachers here.     

    Teachers in studios, classrooms and in the world at large. These are the folks you will see featured in my new series of interviews here at Teacher Goes Back to School.     

    I hope you enjoy these teachers as much as I do!     

    First up, my primary yoga teacher, Michelle Marlahan– Proprietress/Fairy Queen of It’s All Yoga in Sacramento, California.      

    In case you missed it, here is Part One – Yoga Basics.  

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     Your studio called It’s All Yoga.  

    What does that mean?   

    It means pretty much what it sounds like. Everything can be seen as yoga (with the big y). It isn’t the shapes we make on our mats. It isn’t taking your cute mat bag and new pants to class because it’s hip right now. It isn’t using the lingo and om-ing and having a “namaste” sticker on your car.  

    I would say the less obvious it is, the more authentic it is… The idea that “holiness is a mysterious thing: the greater it is, the less it is noticed” (unknown author).  

    “it’s all yoga” is:  

    •  being stopped in your tracks at the beauty of the sunset
    • it’s being still and quiet for a moment
    • it’s looking someone in the eyes during a conversation
    • it’s living with the intention of the tenets of yoga (which are incredibly similar across spiritual disciplines) rather than just talking or reading about them.

    To consider and live from the idea of non-harming, for example, would probably mean a pretty big shift in most of our lives: gossip, environmental impact, actual violence.  

    It can seem overwhelming or unrealistic, and while changes like that take an incredible amount of awareness, I think it’s actually quite possible to live in this modern world by these principles.  

    Middle path, baby.  

    Do you have a meditation practice?   

    Yes, and… It too changes. Sometimes it’s more reflective, as in the process of journaling. Sometimes it’s just 5 minutes of sitting.  

    I would say, though, that this is the single most important and powerful thing we can do: to sit with the ever-changing flow of ourselves… Thought, feeling, sensation… Without being swept away and impressed/depressed by it all. Just to be with.  

    You’ve said yoga will “ruin” your life as you know it… What did you mean by that? And how has it ruined yours?  

    It’s completely ruined mine! I think you’re never off the hook. Once you know about the philosophy and “the path,” you know when you’re off it.  

    Recently I went to a party and some friends were talking about another person who was not there. The talk was not kind (*not* ahimsa) and probably not entirely true (*not* satya).  

    I didn’t get up and leave the conversation and it’s really heavy on me this morning. My body told me to get up—I felt a little nauseas (another way you’re *ruined*—you’re more aware of your physical and emotional feelings). I even had dreams about it last night.  

    But I didn’t say anything or excuse myself, and I can’t change it, and there’s no sense in berating myself (back to ahimsa). So I take this experience and set the intention to do it differently next time.  

    {Click here to read about MM’s No-Talking-About-People-Experiment 

    What is your blog – Blogasana: Daring Self-Care Through Yoga and Other Wacky Practices – about?  

    Life.  

    Self care.  

    My struggles.  

    What other blogs do your read? Why do you read what you read?  

     I read the blogs of friends, mostly to stay in touch and relate to their lives.  

    I’ve stopped reading people I don’t have some kind of connection with. It can get so overwhelming. I was having the feeling of constantly “catching up” and feeling like I would miss the secret of my life if I didn’t read them all!  

    Who and what inspires you?  

     Nature.  

    Animals.  

    My hubby.  

    My friends and family.  

    Little things. When we leave a restaurant, Ron will take our leftovers to a homeless person. When he hands it to them, he calls them “brother.” it gets me every time.  

    Please leave any questions or comment love below:     

    If you want to learn more about Michelle or 13 Things We Believe at It’s All Yoga:     

    She’s on Twitter at @michelmarlahan     

    Subscribe to her blog and all the goodness comes directly to your email – Blogasana:  Daring Self Care Through Yoga (and Other Wacky Practices)     

    {Michelle’s photo credit: Ashlee Gadd}     

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    Yoga Isn’t All F#*king Sunshine and Rainbows

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    I feel it is my duty to clear up a common misconception about people who “do yoga.”

    We (yoga peeps) are not somehow exempt from the negative feelings of everyday life.

    We experience real feelings of  jealousy, rage, pettiness and my personal favorite – defensiveness.  Call it the dark side, the unpopular, the stuffed down deep – however you think of the “negative” feelings – we feel them too.

    Over the last year as my yoga and non-yoga lives have come together and as more and more people think of me as someone who “does yoga” — I have been on the receiving end more than once of someone telling me that something I’ve said or done isn’t very “yogic.”

    Say what?

    Not very yogic?

    What the f*ck does that mean?

    Maybe I was mad and talked some sh*t about someone. Maybe I dropped an F-bomb (or 12), or maybe I bit someone’s head off after they said something stupid… (for example when someone pointed out what I just did or said was wasn’t very “yogic”).

    Seriously.

    Real life (and real yoga) is messy.

    Both are full of challenges and frustrations. Sometimes resentment and anger and pettiness come up and bite you in the ass leaving you wondering where the hell that came from. On my mat (and off) I’ve experienced fear, pain and crying.

    It’s not pretty. But it is what it is.

    It’s all yoga, people.

    The good, the bad and the ugly.

    Real yoga isn’t about sitting in lotus with your head in the clouds with a smile on your face all the time. Or about saving face and keeping it all even keeled.

    I’m calling bullsh*t on that, people.

    The true aim is to find self-acceptance in what is happening right now, in this moment. And being ok with it. Even if it is an unpleasant or unpopular feeling like jealousy or envy.

    Knowing that both the good and the bad feelings will come and go and to let things be as they are. No judgement, just noticing.

    Michelle shared a poem in class this morning all about looking into the face of your fears and into the darkness.

    That is what yoga really is, facing the unflattering parts of yourself and cutting yourself some slack. And maybe even finding some compassion and acceptance for the less popular parts of yourself.

    Don’t let people (or yourself) try to stuff you into their limited view about what is “yogic” – remember whatever rises is what is real.

    Does someone you know try to deny the unpretty parts of you? Do you do it to yourself?

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    Saturday Senses

    Saturday Senses is a way to capture the spirit of each week.  

      

    tasting ::  perfect farmer’s market strawberries in august.

    hearing ::  lots of great feedback on the michelle from it’s all yoga interview. {stay tuned for part 2!}

    smelling ::  a mid-week spa day: sauna and hot tub. 

    seeing :: students working for preferred activity time! fred jones is a secret genius.

    feeling ::  tired. the first few weeks of school keep me up too late and wake me up too early. can’t.turn.off.my.brain.

    wishing/hoping ::  everyone has a safe and restful holiday weekend.

    What are your senses this Saturday?  Looking back, how was your week?    

    Leave me a comment to tell me made your week memorable.    

    This weekly tradition was inspired by Pink of Perfection’s Five Sense Friday

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    Song of the Day!

     

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    What are YOU listening to this week?

    For other songs that have gotten stuck in my head recently:

    Song of the Day #16Song of the Day #15Song of the Day #14Song of the Day #13Song of the Day #12Song of the Day #11Song of the Day #10Song of the Day #9Song of the Day #8Song of the Day #7,  Song of the Day #6,  Song of the Day #5,  Song of the Day #4Song of the Day #3Song of the Day #2Song of the Day #1

    Don’t Take It Personally

    It’s kinda says it all, doesn’t it?

    Who are we to let others define who we are?

    According to Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements – if we take what others say about us personally, then we must believe what others say about us. When in fact, what people say about us is really about them.

    In other words:

    Don’t take it personally.

    Not the good stuff.

    Not the bad stuff.

    Nothing is personal.

    Each year I come up with a New School Year Resolution. I’m now in my seventh year with my own class and I think this one will help most with my (what seems to be up until now) suffering:

    Don’t. Take. It. Personally.

    {I thought it was worth repeating}.

    What mantras help you get through the stressful times in your life? What are words you live by?

    For a little background about my previous suffering – take a look at this post: The Good, The Bad and Sick of All the BS.

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    It’s All Yoga, People… An Interview With Michelle Marlahan – Yoga Basics

    Teachers.

    Don’t you just love them?

    I know I do.

    There are those that inspire me and those that make me laugh. Some help me solve problems in my classroom and others that help me solve problems in my life.

    I’d like to introduce you to some of my favorite teachers here.

    Teachers in studios, classrooms and in the world at large. These are the folks you will see featured in my new series of interviews here at Teacher Goes Back to School.

    I hope you enjoy these teachers as much as I do!

     First up, my primary yoga teacher, Michelle Marlahan– Proprietress/Fairy Queen of It’s All Yoga in Sacramento, California.

    When did you start practicing yoga?

    I started practicing yoga in the mid 90s. There was a wellness program at my job (UC Davis Medical Center) and they started offering yoga.

    This really sweet woman, who, I now know, did mostly calisthenics, taught the classes for about a year. It was easy lovely stretching. Then she left and a new teacher came in who took it up a notch. It was more physical. In one class she did a modified side plank on the knee, which I’d done before, and she added the “if you want to make this more challenging…” and took her bottom leg back into full side plank.

    In that moment, for some reason, it clicked for me that there was a lot more to this “yoga” than I’d been experiencing. I set out to discover what that was.

    Why did you start practicing yoga?

    Honestly, I started because it was there. It was convenient, someone else in my department was going, it was easy. And then, of course, I got hooked.

    It also brought part of myself that had been separated or compartmentalized together. I grew up going to church and had continued here in Sacramento through college. I loved the ritual, the reverence and the discipline of going every week. But over time I stopped participating in all the responses (I was catholic) because they didn’t feel right. I didn’t believe it, so I sectioned off what was useful.

    When I started learning about the philosophy of yoga, it brought that separated part back into the whole, back into me. It, or I, felt like a complete, vibrant, living thing.

    Where did you practice back when you started?

    After the classes at the Med Center I started going to Healthy Habits, which offered yoga as well as other fitness-y things. I supplemented that with reading and study.

    How has your yoga practice evolved over time?

    Oh my gosh, how hasn’t it changed? I started soft and stretchy (even though I was neither — at that time I was a runner), then became interested in the physical aspects (I was in my mid 20s, after all…) And liked doing challenging classes, then I got more “serious” and started going to a bona fide yoga studio (the only one in town).

    It was heated practice (85 degrees). I got a little addicted to the heat — it was definitely an ego rush to be so much more flexible. I injured myself several times by over-stretching and being over stimulated by the heat (not able to feel my appropriate boundaries).

    Thankfully my practice evolved from that phase and subsequently became a lot more grounded, less adrenalized.

    In just the last few years I’ve softened and matured — in my own practice and in my teaching. I’m a completely different teacher than I was even 3 years ago… And 3 years before that. If you’re not changing and evolving as a teacher (or  person/mother/partner/friend/etc), you’re not paying attention.

    How long have you been a yoga teacher?

    I took my first teacher training in 2001

    Why did you open your studio – It’s All Yoga?

    I had a full-time job, taught for the people I worked with during lunch twice a week, and taught at another studio once a week. It was *fine*.

    Even though financially I had a “great job,” I didn’t like it and there was a disparity between how I was living and how I wanted to live.

    The dream of the studio probably came from seeing a gap in what was available. I longed for a space and community where *I* would want to practice.

    My husband is actually the reason It’s All Yoga opened. He went into the business that was closing (at our first location) and got the landlord’s info… Called him and inquired… And nudged me. He’s been incredibly supportive and encouraging.

    You do a lot of readings in class. What’s the deal with the poetry?

    I’ve loved poetry since childhood and, particularly at certain times in my life, reading/writing poetry has been an outlet, a touchstone, a place to ground and grow and explore new ideas.

    Pretty early on in my teaching I would read a passage of some kind — maybe a yoga-related thing. Eventually I started reading poems that I loved. About 5 years ago I met my teacher Mary (Paffard) who also reads poetry, which was wonderful because I was able to enjoy it as a student. It adds so much to the practice for me. As a teacher, poems and writings support the theme of the class so much more effectively and beautifully than I could with my own words.

    {For more of Michelle’s thought on poetry, check out her post}

    A multipart question!

    Do you have a home practice? What is it like? How often? Where? How did you start and how do you keep at it?

    You can’t teach yoga if you don’t have a home practice (in my opinion=). You also have to have practice time that is separate from your prep time, which is often the hardest part.

    My home practice varies day-to-day, week to week and is dependent on so many things: my energy level, how I’ve slept, if I teach that day, time of the month, season of the year, how my body is, and what I’m interested in. My time on my mat has always been very instinctively guided — I don’t like to follow sequences or DVDs. Admittedly, I don’t work as hard as I used to!

    Currently, I practice in the living room or outside on my yoga deck (my favorite). At times I’ve had a designated room and it’s been lovely… But when it comes down to it, so little is needed to practice, let alone take a stretch or a mindful breath. We can get caught in the endless story of “I’ll do it when everything is just so… Just right… “

    As for the “what,” often I’ll do some breath practice and stretching after a morning walk, and then have a more formal practice in the afternoon. Sometimes it’s nothing more than a few poses in bed in the morning {FREE VIDEO ALERT!} Or before I go to sleep. And some days I don’t do any formal asana at all {gasp!}.

    What’s your favorite pose? Why?

    Don’t make me pick just one! It changes by the day. Right now I’m really into shoulders (FREE VIDEO ALERT!) and there’s a hip sequence I do almost everyday.

    What’s your least favorite pose?

    I’ve made friends with so many poses that at one time were my least favorite. I used to dread Virabhadrasana I (Warrior 1) and now I love, love, love it.

    We usually don’t like things we aren’t good at. I have really tight hamstrings, so forward folds are challenging on lots of levels. I can’t stand frog pose. But actually, constructive rest is the worst (crazy, I know) because it presses on a nerve issue in my sacrum.

    Stay tuned for PART 2 with Michelle!

    Please leave any questions or comment love below:

    If you want to learn more about Michelle or 13 Things that We Believe at It’s All Yoga:

    She’s on Twitter at @michelmarlahan

    Blogasana:  Daring Self Care Through Yoga (and Other Wacky Practices

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